In every author’s life there are always people who help us
become the writer we are. Those people deserve our utmost gratitude. And among
this group of encouragers there is most likely also one person who stands out in
the crowd. A person who made the difference in your decision to become a writer,
or not. A person, who perhaps pushed you over a hump and made you try—or try again. A
person whose encouragement was so valuable that you might not even be a writer
at all if not for them.
For me, that person was the Editor in chief at a small newspaper
I was working at.
But let me backup.
All my life I’d wanted to be a writer, I
wrote for pleasure and I wrote stories for my children, but I never wrote
anything anyone could see.
In a way, I think my late father had a hand in the way fate
changed my life, because so many things happened all at once I don’t really
even understand to this day how I got here.
This is how it happened.
I lived in Portland, OR. I worked part time at an upscale
salon downtown. I taught cosmetology part time at a college and I went to
school fulltime. Majored in Fine Arts. Why? Because I didn’t believe I
could be a writer due to my dyslexia – I’d let my disability become my excuse
instead of my reason – so I was going to be an illustrator instead, dammit. Luckily, my
mother was an artist and my father dabbled in art, so I had just enough residual
talent to fake it.
Then my father died. And this is where my life takes a
huge detour. I packed up and moved to a beautiful small town in Oregon to take care
of my grieving mother. I got a job at the nicest salon in town, bought a cool
house and let my dream of becoming an illustrator go. With no colleges to
continue my degree, I was okay with accepting a simple life in my new friendly
town.
Fate had other plans once again.
Four months later, once I
was happily settled in and making friends, I was in a car accident. My neck was so
messed up that I couldn’t work in the salon for close to a year. But I needed
to work so I took a fulltime job at a local jewelers and a part-time job at the
local paper selling advertising. I really enjoyed the challenge of creating the
ads and helping people acquire more business. Plus, I got to walk around
downtown (all 8 blocks) visiting with people.
But soon, I needed something more so I enrolled in online
college. And here is where my most important person comes in. Debby (I’ll give
you her details later), my Editor in chief, asked if I’d like to write a column
about the happenings going on downtown. A friendly gossip column of sorts. I
desperately wanted to say yes, but I was nervous my spelling and grammar were
not up to “publishing” standards.
“Don’t worry,” Debby said. “I’ll edit it first. I won’t put
anything out there that isn’t ready.”
My whole world shifted. One column at a time.
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Each week I’d get to do exactly what I’m doing right now,
talk about nothing but gibberish. And people liked it. The locals would
actually make it a point to tell me how much they enjoyed the column.
No one was laughing at me. At least not to my face.
My mother was in shock. I don’t think she ever dreamed that
I could read, much less write.
Remember she’d watched me struggle all my life.
She’d gotten my cards and letters over the years—chicken scratched and littered
with errors because I couldn’t write to save myself.
But it turns out all I needed was to type— and type a lot. Debby
gave me just that chance when she asked me if I wanted to start covering some news
also. Let me tell you, you haven’t truly written until you’ve covered a City Council
meeting. Ha! I joke.
It was about a year later that I was standing outside on my
back porch, waiting for my dog to do her business, that the universe revealed its
ultimate plan for me. It was like a voice, somewhere in my own mind, yet not my
usual monologue voice. This voice was important and it made me pay attention.
It said, “You’ve always wanted to be writer. To write books. In five years,
will you still feel the same?”
“Yes,” I answered back, looking to the clouds rushing across
the sky.
“And in ten years, twenty years, will you still wish you had
written a book?”
“Yes, yes.”
I walked around in a daze that day. And that night I dreamt
the end. Not the end of my life but the end of a story I’d been writing in my
head for as long as I could remember.
The next morning, I woke up before the sun and began to
write.
That was seven years ago this month.
Seven happy years spent hammering words onto paper. Seven
hard years trying to figure it all out. And seven years of learning who it was I
really wanted to be.
So I raise a virtual glass of champagne. “To Debby! Thanks
for changing my life. You made me believe I could.”
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